Kiehl's Father's Day Shoot
I think stay-at-home dads get a bad rap in the media.
We're often portrayed as forgetful, distracted, emotionally stunted parental blobs who never get it right.
And yet somehow - I loved my time as a stay-at-home dad, it literally changed my life, and I met a lot of other dads during that time that proved to me that the media portrayal is just not justified.
Sara Denny-Roth of Kiehl's and I always agreed that this special dopp kit project was a celebration of dads and their interaction with their children. In my experience, some of the smallest but most special moments that dads have with their kids is while playing at the park; so, we gathered several dads we knew and invited them to a playdate. We used the same park in the West Village that I always take my kids to - and actually, this is the place that I really learned photography whileas I shot my kids just being kids. Our only stipulation was to forget about me shooting and just focus on having fun.
Below are some of the shots from that day. I hope in these images you see the tenderness, warmth and genuine love that I felt between these families that day.
Becoming a father and the daily gift/challenge of that role is nourishment to my life. I want to thank Kiehl's for helping me promote and celebrate that joy with an even larger audience.
We're often portrayed as forgetful, distracted, emotionally stunted parental blobs who never get it right.
And yet somehow - I loved my time as a stay-at-home dad, it literally changed my life, and I met a lot of other dads during that time that proved to me that the media portrayal is just not justified.
Sara Denny-Roth of Kiehl's and I always agreed that this special dopp kit project was a celebration of dads and their interaction with their children. In my experience, some of the smallest but most special moments that dads have with their kids is while playing at the park; so, we gathered several dads we knew and invited them to a playdate. We used the same park in the West Village that I always take my kids to - and actually, this is the place that I really learned photography whileas I shot my kids just being kids. Our only stipulation was to forget about me shooting and just focus on having fun.
Below are some of the shots from that day. I hope in these images you see the tenderness, warmth and genuine love that I felt between these families that day.
Becoming a father and the daily gift/challenge of that role is nourishment to my life. I want to thank Kiehl's for helping me promote and celebrate that joy with an even larger audience.
Comments on "Kiehl's Father's Day Shoot"
This is just so cute. :)
The second is amazing!
I find these photos very moving, maybe because I grew up without a father..
Thank you!
//Antonia
These are so cute! Precious.
Absolutely beautiful shoot.
Kate
katewoodsphotography.blogspot.com
Hello. I have to say that your photographs are wonderful. I wouldn't assume that everyone see's things negatively. I think a lot of people think that stay at home dads are just wonderful! Who cares what others think, especially if its negative. Chill!
j'adore! the first photo is breathtaking.
So sweet.
just love it
these pictures are beautiful.
Beautiful pictures!
I used to be daddy's little girl when I was growing up. Over time we drifted apart and I grew up. Sometimes I wish I still had those arms to go to.
Soooo Cutee!!!
http://thatsmeandthecity.blogspot.com/
WONDERFUL pics ;D
STREET STYLE: Couple Garance DORE & The SARTORIALIST
htp://magmoiselle.fr
Wow, this is so, so beautiful and touching. I have pretty strong bound with my father, he always is so sweet to me, and he always seems so proud, and it really makes me happy
xoxo Sootjeelina <3
So sweet..
One can feel the unconditioned love..very heartfelt.
Thanks for what you do..There isn't a day that I don't look at your blog. A highlight!
http://michelleyorkdesigns.com/
Really lovely. Thanks for sharing!
Touching!
Loved the photographs!
amazing post, very touching. I'm still daddy's little girl, even though I'm already married.
http://trivialinsanity-n.blogspot.com/
the top pic is so sweat and beautiful! i love the passion the father has for his delicate son! very nice!!
www.shervinsworld.com
je craque!!! so sweeettttttttt bravo!!
I love these photos and this project! My husband and I became parents just over a year ago and I love watching my husband and daughter together - beautiful, heart-expanding moments!
Love these photos!
http://blindpassionforfashion.blogspot.com/
These pictures are so incredibly moving and so is the writing!
Stay at home dads (and mums too) are so unfarely judged, I agree! Society tends to care just about careers and success and everything glamorous and shiny, and often forgets all the rest. But, that tenderness is what really makes all the differance in the long run.
Even if every case is unique and these are very complex and personal matters, -I respect every choice-, but generally speaking I don't see the point of having children if they are going to be raised by someone else other than their own parents.
BEAUTIFUL
Love,
May
Wonderful pictures, it's rare to see dad and their children, we often see mothers and it was a good idea to take this pictures :) in France, it's father's day on sunday !!
It makes me so happy to see Dads (and moms) involved in their children's lives. We need to continue to nurture the generation that is behind us.
Your photos inspire me every single day. The teensy fringed sandals in the third shot are killing me! Gorgeous. Thank you.
beautiful! the shots are amazing, great dads are to be celebrated!
It is so nice, very nice pictures!
I think everybody needs both parents. I think it matters less about which parent stays home to raise the children, but it's a good idea when one parent can.
Beautiful photos and thoughts! Thanks for that!
The last photo is so moving it made me cry! Their inner peace is absolutely beautiful.
what a beautiful photo's
you can actually feel the love!
love, selina
http://selinaderuijter.blogspot.com/
These shot's are amazing! Absolute love the top one and the sandels on the baby in the 3rd, they are so cute!
Great photos!
I think stay at home dads are so charming :)
Scott,
These are lovely. Being a Dad is a lifetime job.
The other day I was in the grocery store with my husband and 25-year old son. I caught sight of them walking down the grocery aisle shoulder to shoulder, one a younger version of the other -- and was struck by how lucky they are to have each other.
Hugely inspired to keep on photographing my kids.
http://blogcreepingbeauty.blogspot.com/
I really appreciate that you showed different ethnicities. Families come in all colors and it was really great to see that reflected here.
The lean of the second photo just kills me.
Wonderful, and a step to the right direction!
i love the third baby's sandals! so chic and so cute! :)
www.fittinginn.blogspot.com
what a statement these photos convey. favorite post thus far. :)
This posting made me smile. I brought my daughter from the age of 2 up by myself as a single father. I always made great efforts to ensure we were both well turned out , but that lead certain people ( sadly I have to observe women)to say that I didn't look like a father let alone a single dad. Seems that looking stylish and caring for your child are considered mutually exclusive by some. Good to see these shots on your blog
the 1st one is soooo sweet!!!!
Cool n' Cute!
theBohmerian.com
Dads are amazing.
Thank you for all you do.
http://andreas-7am.blogspot.com
i love the pics ...
this is the new man ...
Hermosa recreacion de la paternidad saludos
Reading your blog is such a great way to end an exhausting day, like the one I had today.
Thank you!
Men and babies - sexy. Fatherhood - priceless. Thanks for posting this!
http://justquachit.com
I love this.
The top photo is stunning and so happy - you've really caputured the love in it.
Katie
www.katiescreative.blogspot.com
These are so cute!...my dear scott you are a genius
this is amazing
thank you for this post
also, love the photographs
I've never gotten tears in my eyes from one of your posts before...but my wonderful husband and precious, 20 month old son are away for 3 days and I didn't sleep at all last night because I could feel where they weren't. I am wildly proud of what a good daddy my husband is. It is one of the greatest blessings of my life.
And, in this case, your words are as beautiful as your pictures.
Beautiful people:)
Just FABULOUS !!
Absolutely beautiful! It is wonderful to see a positive reflection of the father and child relationship. Thanks for your portrayal. May it continue to grow!
Sooooo greaaaaat dad ! sooooo good shoot !!
http://monsacbyme.com
Gosh, this post makes me wanna quit my job and be a stay at home dad. Such an inspiring post.
These moving photos are the perfect way to celebrate dads. Too often their contributions go unnoticed.
Beautiful, I don't usually comment here but this touched me in the "yeah I'm a parent now and certain things just get to me" sort of way.
I was fortunate to become a stay-at-home dad in 1978. I wouldn't have changed a thing... Thanks for this.
Great work catching the precious tenderness that lives between children and their dads. It melts our hearts and is worth more than gold.
this is one of the most beautiful posts! i love papas! xx
Bravo! Beautiful photos, and I think it is so important that we SEE dads with their kids. Stay-at-home parents, whether dads of moms, contribute so much to our society and future, and gain so much love and bonding in the process. These photos represent that so well!
And, yes, so nice to see say at home parents looking well groomed and stylish- unlike the usual grubby sweatpant stereotype. Thanks, Scott!
Yes indeed, I do see the "tenderness, warmth, and genuine love" in these photos. They're truly beautiful.
Too Cute!!!
<3 <3 <3 :)
love it!
As long as a child is raised in a loving home...
Being a stay at home mum is not very socially rewarding either (it is in many other fields too), but people (sometimes incl. husband friends and family), think you are lazy, that you do nothing during the day. My days as a stay at home mum were so full I was exhausted like never at night. Still, I never got to make working people believe me. Working is easy...
Cute pics.
I love this ad campaign because it has real men that have flaws and are all the more appealing for them. I hate the photo shoots with obvious male model dads and their airbrushed stunning "children". More bald, fat, scrawny, old, unfashionable dads, please! As long as they are full of love.
Yes you achieved what you set out to create, these are beautiful photos.
So beautiful!
Fantatisco! Mi piace molto il suo blog! Grazie millie per consì bravo lavoro. Filippo di Hong Kong.
Beautiful, sweet shoot. Thanks
http://www.purseandco.com
I am in love with these images. They are so wonderful and so empowering.
www.greeneggsandglam.blogspot.com
it is a miracle, sweet and wonderful kids))
bravo!
xxx
This comment has been removed by the author.
I LOVE these pictures.
They are SO warm.
Now, I miss my dad! :)
stunning pics!!! love this.
beautiful pictures and post! happy father's day :)
Great photos, such adorable moments
http://www.fashionhacks.blogspot.com/
Seeing these images is a wonderful reminder of the importance of a parent/child relationship, in this case dads. The tenderness, warmth and genuine love came through, no question. That said, Happy Father's Day Scott & ALL the great dads out there! xx from Soleil
http://sharpthreads.blogspot.com
Such beautiful sentiments in these photos! My husband works from home so he is quite like a stay-at-home dad. Happy Father's Day!
Oh ... these are so sweet.
Oh I love this post - my dad isn't stay-at-home but he takes every other tuesday off to have specific time with us kids. Worth more than all of those days at the office combined.
I really love this post. I particularly like the last photo, as it reminded me of a similar one taken of my dad and me when I was 3. He's not a stay-at-home dad, but whenever he's home, I don't mind that he's away for work for long periods because he always has the time for his family.
Thanks for this and Happy Father's Day in advance to you, Mr Sartorialist. :)
-- Miel, Philippines
So true about the park and playing outside! When we became teenagers my dad used to say 'I liked you guys better when you were little...we used to go on bike rides.' He was great at playing outside.
That first photo is just darling!
My dad was a stay at home dad and I had a fantastic childhood. We went to the park with the dog nearly every day. Played catch and played guitar (well I more listened) and through out the day we had great food and fun.
I Love you Dad
OMG I LOVE THIS. STAYING AT HOME IS A HARD JOB SO WHETHER DAD OR MOM I COMMEND THEM.
Copper Etiquette Always Appropriate Shop Dresses
This is such an amazing post - you are so correct. So inspirational and I want to show my dad this post of yours :)
www.dragonnfruit.com
Beautiful shots of caring fathers. Parenting in general is often seen as a non-worthy career choice. Lucky kids who have a parent who considers them a worthy choice!
SO REAL. Love it!
This is actually really beautiful.
My dad's a stay-at-home dad, and he has been almost all my life.
It's not often that a photo will touch my heart, but these did.
Thank you.
what wonderful, wonderful photos! It didn't strike me until I saw them on your page, how very little we see these kinds of shots in the media in general. Thank you so much for capturing such beautiful souls.
I think stay-at-home anything gets a bad rap. If you've ever done the stay-at-home thing, you know it's not easy. I've kind of wondered about dads who stay home, wondered how they felt, if they felt stigmatized or lonely as it's easy to meet other moms at the park but the dynamics must be different for dads.
Anyhoo, this reminds me of a post on Mighty Girl about favorite childhood memories. It struck me because a lot of them mentioned time with dad. I think they're quite moving (like your photos):
http://mightygirl.com/2011/05/10/more-of-your-childhood-memories/
lovely, really amazing photos -- the connection men have with their kids is one of the most beautiful things ever. and so sweetly photographed
They're beautiful!
Happy father's day to all daddies this weekend!
super cool! thanks
Scott...this has to be one of my HANDS DOWN FAVORITE Picture post!
http://lisapetrarca.blogspot.com/2011/06/wanna-get-away.html
I love the whole post. The photos are so gorgeous, real and warm they brought a tear to my eye. What you write about fathers is so right too. I wish more dads would have guts to do what essentially is the best thing in the world -taking care of your children, every day.
Happy Father's Day, you clearly are a good one!
http://auntiestreasurechest.blogspot.com/
Incredible work! I felt warm! Thank you!
I LOVE THESE PHOTOS!!!!!! THE IMPORTANCE OF FATHERS!!!!! Through these photos, I can see the love between the fathers and children! Very moving and I thank you!!
To the extent that a the bonds between a Father and Child are strenghtened, so does the world become a safer and more loving place. Fatherly love is so much more important than anyone can ever imagine. The intimacy and wisdom a Father imparts to a child makes all the difference in how a child sees themselves and how they interact with the world they live in. Love your child and love the world.
Hug your children today Fathers, and never let go,..... http://oslolook.blogspot.com/
Aww inducing photos, Scott! Advance Happy Father's Day!
I love this post :)
The pictures are wonderful. And I just realized that we are so used to see pictures of moms and kids, but photographs of fathers with children are not so common. Great idea! Thanks so much.
I really like these photos, kinda liberating, that they are not about fashion.. my fav. is the first one, father and daughter don't pose, it's love what you see. very touching shot!
It's amazing what memories pictures like this bring back !
Happy Fathers day to you Sartorialist
My dad retired n stays at home n he takes lovely care of us ... these me r truly adorable
heart-warming photos
http://dreamydaybook.blogspot.com/
"I hope in these images you see the tenderness, warmth and genuine love that I felt between these families that day."
Yes, I can feel them. And I smile when reading this post.
adorable kids! i really love these pictures. so cute
x marije
beautiful photography!
so sweet!!!!!!! love all <3
http://wonderfashionista.blogspot.com/
AWWWWWWWW FIRST SHOOT IS PURE CUTENESS!!
My father was a stay-at-home dad for my entire childhood. Thank you for bringing attention to such an under-appreciated and completely deserving group of men, and for sharing your experience.
Awesome shots that will melt everyone's heart :)
http://onthestreetofflorence.blogspot.com/2011/06/pitti-uomo-80-florence-street-shots-day.html
beautiful post
Oh! IT IS VERY TENDER PICTURE! IT IS HIGH DEGREE OF BEAUTY AND ATTITUDE!!!
the pics are beautiful, the idea is simply brilliant. The relationship between daddies and kids is still so misterious...in Italy we continue to prise the mummy-kid-relationship, a stay-at-home dad is today unfortunately difficult to find. really lovely ;)
Dear Mr Sartorialist! Your pictures are wonderful, but what you wrote about fatherhood is even more wonderful. My 3 years old son is so lucky, coz his daddy is always for him, esp. lately my toddler spent 3 nights in the hospital and it was father who took care of him in the night. Thanks to all wise fathers!!!!
wow. this is amazingly beautiful!
The pictures are indeed very nice.
I fully agree that there is an issue with how fathers (not only stay-at-home dads) are portrayed. My experience is that very few dads get it all right, very few dads get it all wrong, the immense majority (99%?) get it right on some things, wrong on others, right some time, wrong other times, right with one kid, wrong with another kid (& vice versa).
Isn't that the fate of most parents? Every kid is different. Even acting exactly in the same way with each of your children, you won't be the same dad or mum to all your children. I *guess* this is the difficult part, yet the great thing about being a parent.
http://davidikus.blogspot.com/
http://www.davidranc.com
Great pictures and great theme. I think especially the last picture is so cool; this laid back, bohemian touch from daddys hair and outfit and the childs cute sandals - they look, as if daddy will never let any of them get stressed - luv it :-)
magnifique.....les photos sont superbes
These pictures are so beautiful, you can really sense that loving bond between father and child
I love all of the pictures but especially the first one, you really captured the moment.
this is sooo sweet!
www.whatisaboytodo.blogspot.com
Happy Fathers day to everyone!
These are jus beautiful
I wish I know what my dad looks like
Totally adorable and sweet! There's something touching, about a man with a baby in his arms, don't know why...
that's amazing!!!
http://katerinascloset.blogspot.com/
I like the three of them, but the second one, the man with the boy, is superb. You rarely see men being tender to children that are the age of this boy. This is one of your best posts, really touching. Congratulations from a working mother.
This is nothing short of beautiful. Happy Father's day.
So cute!!
A little misty eyed looking at these beautiful photos. Stay at home dads are just like stay at home moms - they hold down the fort and keep it all together. I admire stay at home dads it takes a lot of inner confidence to do something against the norm. Which is what I see in these photos - men who truly know who they are.
Sooo cute!
Great pictures!
what a beautiful memento for the families involved- beautiful work Scott.
these photos are really touching. great job and excellent photography that speaks
http://noblebrands4less.blogspot.com/
Very natural fatherly love shots. Love them all.
These pictures literally brought a tear to my eye! So beautiful and touching!
I will miss my Dad this Father's Day, he passed away a couple years ago at age 92. These are wonderful photos, I especially like the last one.
There is probably nothing that makes me happier than seeing a happy dad interact with his child. These photos are wonderful.
Thanks so much! These are wonderful! And the whole idea behind the project is very, very touching.
MORE!!!!
Comments from someone like you on stay-at-home dads are very important. The more people talk and read about the more it will get 'common'. And, thank you for your wonderful blog.
Adele
awesome photos!!!
love them!
amazing!
Bea
So inspiring. Real men, what can be better than that. Sigh:)
amazing photos..my parents were mostly absent as i grew up in a conflicted household..these are precios moments.
http://flysongbird.blogspot.com
http://twitter.com/debi_songbird
What I love is that you can really see the similarities between father and child. And the toddler sandals are priceless.
onlywhenyoure17.blogspot.com
sooooooooooooo cute !!!!1
http://sophiainfashionland.blogspot.com/
need the cuteness on this warm sticky day in NYC. Thanks.
I love those little shoes on the little one in the last photo!
fantastic :)
Visit: http://pedrogarfo.tumblr.com/
Mens fashion blog
Wow. I love these photos. The tender strength of a father is so precious.
I just can't help coming over and over again to the site to see the first picture. Sooo cute :)The smile of the father, the look of the baby...perfect summertime moment
This is a wonderful post. I think it's very noble that some men choose to be stay at home dads. Being a stay at home parent is one of the hardest jobs especially when children are young.
I love my dad very much so in honor of that Happy Almost Fathers Day to everyone out there. Loved these photographs.
Fashionable Collections
I use this a lot, especially on your site, but this is the essence of beautiful.
Thanks for sharing your insight and appreciation on the topic of stay at home dads. Our culture carries a lot of baggage on this issue, and oftentimes the evangelical church does not help. I recently encountered a Seattle pastor (Mark Driscoll) railing about the alleged manlessness of stay at home dads, and as a Christian, I couldn't help but offering a critique of his drivel. You can see it here if you're interested: http://is.gd/pm32On
Rock on. Love the pictures!
-C. Lambeth
My Dad is quite the character and unique in every way. Growing up I was so embarrassed of him and avoided having to introduce him as my father. As an adult I realize how special he is and how dads come in all shapes and forms. He told me he always wanted to be a "comedian in the movies" which makes sense because he's hilarious and always the life of the party.
Happy Father's Day everyone!
xx
http://hideandchic2011.blogspot.com
brought tears to my eyes
great shoot! and where can one buy those adorable baby moccasin sandals?
Sooooo adorable... ♥
http://www.isthisitmodelsreview.com/
Beautiful photos!!!! <3 <3 <3
http://prinzessinwunderlich.blogspot.com/
I see in your pictures the right moment when a child constructs his/her confidence to the world by taking love in the arms of a parent. So sweet...
ps: As a stay-at-home mother for a year, I feel that it is the "stay-at-home" (whatever the parent) that is often underestimated.
All the pictures are so cute but.. The first is so.. without words.
quelles merveilleuses photos de papas avec leurs enfants. bravo !
Beautiful pictures! (I especially love the last one...)
Dads rock! Mine was awesome and some days I still miss him. But he left wonderful memories...(he lived to a fine old age.) Mom and I were telling stories of him last week and ended up laughing ourselves silly!
Thanks to all the Dads out there and for all you do!
Soooo precious! Kudos to all stay at home dads!
http://www.labellaluxe.com
Just lovely. Thanks you so much.
Beautiful in every way.
So sweet. My husband just so happens to also be a wonderful father, and it always makes me smile to see him interact with our two little ones. Love this post!
good on you sart for promoting such a good cause, your blog really does educate!
Love these! Pictures truly are so much more than words :)...
i love how the last pic, as a stay at home dad im feel what you mean about the media
http://cebustfashion.blogspot.com/
sweet, oh so sweet!
Beautiful! Thank-you for sharing these beautiful photos of love! Sometimes we get so caught up in our daily hustle and bustle that we forget to show love to the closest people in our loves. Thanks for the inspiration
A lovely post, both photos and words! My husband works part-time so that we can share looking after our two young boys and I couldn't imagine it any other way. The relationship they are building is worth so much more than potential income.
What a perfect post for Father's Day. You definitely captured a lot of real emotion in these.
that's so sweet and moving...
the love in the eyes of the fathers is so moving. and the kids sandals in the 3rd picture are just precious.
;)
My sister and I were raised in large part by nannies and I always felt there were great gaps in my relationship with my parents because of it. When it came time for me to raise my kids, I felt strongly about being a full-time, at-home mom and I've never regretted it. I'm so glad to see more men taking on this role. You hear so much about how isolating and draining it is, but it doesn't have to be. Sure, no one's handing out awards and bonuses to those of us who let the career train go past while we step off to raise our kids. But those gorgeous little moments, like the ones you've captured here, are far better rewards.
love it
http://www.lurybeiro.com.br
Thank You! Just terrific!
What a great initiative! I love this! It's adorable. So yes! I definitely feel the tenderness, warmth and genuine love in your pictures! You are a great photographer!
This blog is my favorite.
Check out mine, i mentioned you.
http://thehumanplanetx.blogspot.com/
Beatiful Pictures, the best is the first one!! :)
XO
They definitely show the love in them. Great photos and words.
So lovely! How do we people tend to be so sweet with children and, sometimes so mean with adults?
The last one is so fashion with that shoes!!
Love the photos.
tomorrow is my first fathers' day! my daughter vivian was born three weeks ago and i'm an artist--studio dad! the best of both worlds. nice pictures.
Lovely photos! Happy father's day for all the fathers aroud!
Thanks for this post - lovely and enlightening
amazingness! sometimes we lose sight of what's truly important in life, but your lovely, heartwarming photographs (especially love the one of the father wrapping his son in a towel) are beautiful reminders of the real joys of family!
thanks for sharing these!
amazing! :) love them!
My brother-in-law is a stay-at-home dad to my wonderful 3yo niece. She is so well adjusted, happy, and healthy. I could not imagine her being looked after by anyone else. He is the most amazing father, most amazing parent, and I think he proves that dad's can really get it right.
Happy Father's Day to all you dads out there.